When You Should Lie

15 mrt. 2021
56 867 Weergaven

The world can be a scary place, especially for a woman. @cathypedrayes is here to help by providing a few safety tips that can be useful! For more, visit her tiktok @ cathypedrayes.
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  • Lying is bad. You should never lie. I never lied. Okay that’s a lie.

    Justin LinJustin Lin4 dagen geleden
  • Hey buzzfeed! You've made videos of all sorts of videos that are so relatable and funny such as perks of being short, struggles of girls in summers, but I've never seen a video any video talking about the pros of smiling too much, always being cheerful, or being very loud! I've always been a too much smiling cheerful gal! Some of my friends ask why I am literally always smiling, am and happy and grateful always, even though no friend of mine wished me on my birthday which was on 9 April, I am cheerful like nothing even happened! I would love it so much to see such a video and show it to my friends too.

    Blue_birdBlue_bird6 dagen geleden

    Rman NayrRman Nayr9 dagen geleden
  • JUST KEEPING LYING!!!!!!!!!!

    Rman NayrRman Nayr9 dagen geleden

    Rman NayrRman Nayr9 dagen geleden
  • YES YOU SHOULD LIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Rman NayrRman Nayr9 dagen geleden
  • Using your car alarm as a personal alarm has been an advertised feature for a while now. On the key clicker for my vehicle manufactured in 2005, there is a literal panic button. One side of clicker: lock, unlock. Side two: red button w/ overhead text of 'panic' _useful_

    A G N O M I N AA G N O M I N A21 dag geleden
  • Gosh dude I can’t believe that women have to lie this much just to get out of creepy strangers

    Barfman123Barfman12322 dagen geleden
  • Honesty is the best policy you filthy liars and your going to hell

    DyltubeDyltube23 dagen geleden
  • "Situations when its best to lie" When your channel is titled "buzzfeed" and you want to make a profit off of race or fear mongering.

    dimmupeltodimmupelto26 dagen geleden
  • very smart video

    Paul SnyderPaul Snyder26 dagen geleden
  • Introvert toolkit

    Martin MathewMartin Mathew26 dagen geleden
  • This seems gender specific.

    kineticabilitykineticability28 dagen geleden
  • Honest i,dont lie cames two strangers I walk a way i,say anything Kelly its heather

    Loa LaneLoa Lane29 dagen geleden
  • Damn, there's a lot of nosey ass people 😂

    Dark & TwistedDark & TwistedMaand geleden
  • Some of these things are so bizarre for me even as a woman. Please keep in mind, that most physical and sexual abuse is not done by strangers but by close relatives and friends. So don't always be frightened in public and try to live your live as freely as possible!💗

    Anni KathiAnni KathiMaand geleden
  • This is great and so helpful!!

    Casey FinneganCasey FinneganMaand geleden
  • This should be renamed woman life hacks they don’t teach you in school but definitely should.

    Madelyn BuzekMadelyn BuzekMaand geleden
  • If you close the door and can't open it from the inside, you know the child safety lock is on. But you're trapped INSIDE the car! Sooooo... ?

    NavelAviatorNavelAviatorMaand geleden
  • I think by now I should realize I'm the only one who came from the anxiety attack helper video

    Stellar' RealmStellar' RealmMaand geleden
  • When you should lie:NEVER!😡

    Candace BaughmanCandace BaughmanMaand geleden
  • When it’s okay to lie: when a woman alone. :( a depressing but real video

    Marissa .GaumondMarissa .GaumondMaand geleden
  • Also one that I was taught that if you are locked in a car and need to get away, you can remove the headrest from most cars seats and use the pointed metal parts to break the window and escape.

    Magnificent SarahMagnificent SarahMaand geleden
    • Or it could also be used as a weapon of self defence in an emergency.

      Magnificent SarahMagnificent SarahMaand geleden
  • I spend my most of time in cooking editing and uploading so I need all my brothers and sisters support plzz ❤️🥺

    Shiny KitchenShiny KitchenMaand geleden
  • This is sad that we have to even be careful of these things

    Mykaela PadronMykaela PadronMaand geleden
  • Dayum i mean i understand this but also dont live in fear your whole life. If you live in fear you will attract more fear. Maybe its a culture thing but still unvers logics: Live in fear = get more fear in your life. Live positieve and happy = attract more positieve and happiness.

    MusicGirlMusicGirlMaand geleden
  • my dogs eye is at the lab and my dog has a stich at his eyelid

    Genti GociGenti GociMaand geleden
  • People feel this unsafe but still say there’s no need for the 2A this is exactly why we need the 2A to protect ourselves. Places like Canada where pepper spray is illegal really sucks just saying.... we need to be able to protect ourselves.

    Sergio VelazquezSergio VelazquezMaand geleden
    • Exactly. It's insane how some countries love their criminals so much

      Bence PándiBence Pándi26 dagen geleden
  • Oh another one this one goes for when you go into a store. If you're trying to go into a store to protect yourself or get away from something just walk up to an associate and ask any question. Now you have the attention of the people inside the building that work there. Worst nightmare for anyone trying to mess with you. He used to work in corporate retail we have a handful of verbal and nonverbal cues to get us all sorts of different types of help including notifying the police that aren't even on the premises. You don't have to talk to it. They're called silent cues and we absolutely depend on them and our worst case scenarios.

    Ryan H. Lesley WilsonRyan H. Lesley WilsonMaand geleden
  • another one I can't remember if she mentions in the video and this is extremely important if you live in big cities like I do is to pretend to be on the phone with a good friend of yours for the same reason that you can pretend that somebody around you is friends with you. You have to realize if somebody tries to attack you while you're on the phone and you start screaming that means that the person on the phone is a witness. The more witness you have the more protection you have in court. and on that note if you ever get off public transportation at night take your keys out and play with them. The sound of keys is an auditory deterrent?. why? because keys are a weapon. They're sharp. the goal is to always have the knowledge of how to use the resources you hope you never have to use.

    Ryan H. Lesley WilsonRyan H. Lesley WilsonMaand geleden
  • I think this is common sense but if you ever have a repairman come to your property and you are the slightest uncomfortable you can just refuse the service. I know it's not the most convenient but it might protect you from the inevitable.... Especially if you live in an apartment then what happens is if you get uncomfortable with the person that was supposed to do the service then chances are your property manager has documentation on this said repair personnel and they are usually willing to put you towards the upper part of if not the very top of the list for repairs and services because after all they want to retain you as a tenant.

    Ryan H. Lesley WilsonRyan H. Lesley WilsonMaand geleden
  • Imma start using these, just so I don't have to talk to people

    Jeff AnanarioJeff AnanarioMaand geleden
  • Nearly none of these are needed lmao

    Timothy GreenTimothy GreenMaand geleden
    • @Timothy Green gun and knives and sometimes even pepper spray are illegal in most other countries besides the US so you claim that is something women can use as defense in other countries however it usually is not an option. And you claim that physical training will help but when you are stalked and ambushed or drugged you are already at a severe disadvantage so it is much better to avoid confrontation and be ready for it by expecting it because being drugged or stalked in these situations while alone are almost impossible to deal with by yourself.

      CatCatMaand geleden
    • @Cat if you’re a 5’2” skinny asian or white girl with 0 physical training or weapons (pepper spray, knife, gun, etc.) and you’re traveling in Syria sure but basically anywhere else you’re fine

      Timothy GreenTimothy GreenMaand geleden
    • When your traveling to countries unsafe for women these tips are definitely necessary. Especially the ones about getting an escort and getting an extra lock for the hotel rooms.

      CatCatMaand geleden
  • I seriously thought this was gonna teach people how to just lie lol. This is incredibly informative, thanks guys 👍

    WifiRaiderWifiRaiderMaand geleden
  • It’s a little bit strange to be watching this as I’m one of those people who would make you do most of these..... when I’m not smiling I look Angry (“OMG, I think he’s going to rob me”) made worse by the fact I’m frequently lost in thought, I walk unusually fast & frequently end up spending 3-6 minutes gaining on strangers before I can pass them (“OMG, he’s following me”), if I see someone looking lost I’ll try & find out if they need help but I don’t want to be rude so I ask indirectly (“”You okay there ?”,”you waiting for someone ?”), AND I’m slightly above average height, kinda muscular, kinda stocky, shaved head, bushy unkempt beard & generally dressed in cheap clothes in dark colours !!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

    Nate L.V. BrownNate L.V. BrownMaand geleden
    • Write BuzzFeed to appear in their videos as stereotypical predatory male. EZ money

      Bence PándiBence Pándi26 dagen geleden
  • Wait, lying isn't normal?

    David HerDavid HerMaand geleden
  • Sometime is hard to be a girl🤬 Good tips! Be save👍

    Keren icehandKeren icehandMaand geleden
  • Yup, buzz feed has lost it ideas

    Aradana KarthigeyanAradana KarthigeyanMaand geleden
  • Stfu

    Mohammed TanvirMohammed TanvirMaand geleden
  • as a multilingual person, the speak another language works the best 😂

    NemotheChibiNemotheChibiMaand geleden
  • Il lie to whomever a damn well please thanks lol

    Sam LawSam LawMaand geleden
  • When should you lie**

    Joma AlojadoJoma AlojadoMaand geleden
  • I don't get the voicemail one?

    CarlyKpdxCarlyKpdxMaand geleden
  • She or someone close to her used to live in latinoamerica.

    Oscar ContrerasOscar ContrerasMaand geleden
  • Great

    Poonam smart kitchenPoonam smart kitchenMaand geleden
  • Especially double checking the uber driver's license plate. I had this one uber (male) driver ask what i was doing and he was so confused when i told him i was checking the plate. It's astonishing how some men really are disconnected with how serious and real safety concerns are for women

    Lala NationLala NationMaand geleden
  • Dude this is just paranoia obsessiveness video

    Boogie manBoogie manMaand geleden
  • Jesus Saves Love God✝️

    cquick 3cquick 3Maand geleden
  • I'm actually scarred to always hear or read on the Internet how many females don't feel safe to be alone outside in the US and even other countries when in the country I grew up it's hardly any problem at all. Like in Amsterdam the male tourist are maybe the worst people in the Netherlands to haras woman. Ps. I did feel uncomfortable sometimes but mostly because it was late at night and got bothered by some people asking for money who probably were junkies or suprise surprise guys on the internet

    Nicole DijkstraNicole DijkstraMaand geleden
  • when both men and women do this...birth rates go down by 100%

    Zargon31Zargon31Maand geleden
  • There should be more videos for men like “How to Make Women Feel Safer in Public”

    magpierobin91magpierobin91Maand geleden
    • You really believe that a man with bad intentions would give a f... about some videos online? Decriminalising self defense like pepper spray would be more effective.

      Bence PándiBence Pándi26 dagen geleden
    • You do realize that not all men will be able to do that?

      Simple Stick FigureSimple Stick FigureMaand geleden
  • To check if child lock is on was good all the up to the try opening and closing when inside if it doesn’t open it’s engaged YEA AND ITS TOO LATE! Never ever EVER GET IN if you’re unsure about childlock don’t wait until you’re inside lol

    Erica BrewsterErica BrewsterMaand geleden
  • So are you going to do one for men that are much more likely to be murder victims? Of course not, because who gives a sh*t about men

    Matthew DubeauMatthew DubeauMaand geleden
  • Some good street smart tips but as a general rule you should never feel like you *have* to answer any question from a stranger. If they're making you uncomfortable by being too close or asking you questions, it's best to stay calm, ignore them, & remove yourself from the situation. You don't want them to think it's okay to continue because you responded

    MaeMaeMaand geleden
  • Title should be "Things that women do on a daily basis to not get abducted, raped, and/or killed"

    COLECOLEMaand geleden
  • If you're inside the car and can't open it ?? It's to late then

    Captain_fabiucioCaptain_fabiucioMaand geleden
  • It's ridiculous that this information has to be put out there.

    GustavoGustavoMaand geleden
  • Always lie no matter what. Live a life of deception and never let anyone discover your true identity.

    Graeme HunterGraeme HunterMaand geleden
  • store in in my scrunchie ... and ill loose my scrunchie 😂

    Amrutha JayaveluAmrutha JayaveluMaand geleden
  • Nice

    be the geniusbe the geniusMaand geleden
  • This makes me want to travel so much

    nikkij55nikkij55Maand geleden
  • I have bells on my door because I like them and so my mom knows when I am awake. Lol

    Illyana SuessIllyana SuessMaand geleden
  • I just try not to step into traffic

    Prime MeridianPrime MeridianMaand geleden
  • While I understand the importance of keeping your guard up, if every woman did this they would’ve never found their bf/husband. x) I guess they only lie if they aren’t attracted am I right? lol

    Little McNastyLittle McNastyMaand geleden
  • As a dude, this is wild as hell. Male privilege is something else

    Syed Ali Basit NastuhSyed Ali Basit NastuhMaand geleden
    • @6ern if women would approach more often, or even ever, men would have to find excuses too.

      Mister RexMister Rex24 dagen geleden
    • Men also hide items in chopsticks!

      Bence PándiBence Pándi26 dagen geleden
    • @kuruu yeah but this is mainly more common for women buddy.

      6ern6ernMaand geleden
  • Anyone who grew up in Latin America and just feel like this is basic living 101 for girls and boys?

    QuantumDesignQuantumDesignMaand geleden
  • It’s really sad woman need to think about stuff like this.

    Erika WeberErika WeberMaand geleden
    • Not just women but ok.

      kuruukuruuMaand geleden
  • A White lie

    S&S ChannelS&S ChannelMaand geleden
  • Annoying voice

    Darko MatkovicDarko MatkovicMaand geleden
  • You got a link to that storage scrunchy?

    Sk8rToonSk8rToonMaand geleden
  • When u should lie... apparently all the time.

    Quentin WilliamsQuentin WilliamsMaand geleden
  • Worst content ever, unsubscribed!

    MangaMangaMaand geleden
  • When I was getting close to my due date there were some pushy customers asking where I was delivering.

    AleeshaAleeshaMaand geleden
  • this will be a safty video pushed by everyone from high school, colleges, dating sites, parents, this is commen sense and lying should be a tool to get out of situations you don't feel safe in.

    Jose RamosJose RamosMaand geleden
  • These a good lies. Now if only my body language would shut up...

    marie gmarie gMaand geleden
  • Isis informative as this is and this was interesting to watch it's sad that we live in a world that this is how we have to keep ourselves safe

    Silver Ink182Silver Ink182Maand geleden
  • I'm so depressed watching this. Femmes really do not have the right to public space.

    Peyton FlynnPeyton FlynnMaand geleden
  • No never lie, its a big step to make that will force to change your actions to actions you are proud of, and also reflect honesty on yourself.

    Ekster VogelEkster VogelMaand geleden
  • When she said "Hey babe, I'm home" but she lived alone😂

    Otaku -ruOtaku -ruMaand geleden
  • POV: there up is a friend in a mile radius

    HovernickHovernickMaand geleden
  • I just went through as spectrum of emotions during these 4 minutes. From feeling it's a little silly to realizing as a woman I recognize way to many of these situations, to anger that we need so many tricks just to keep ourselves out of harms way.

    Summer FrostSummer FrostMaand geleden
    • Yeah as a guy I also recognize these situations actually had one happen to me, there's some weird people out there. Stay safe

      Fox HowlerFox Howler8 dagen geleden
  • So she's the girl from taken

    Brian GBrian GMaand geleden
  • I feel really bad and hate that people have to live like secret agent spies just to feel safe

    rasamasalarasamasalaMaand geleden
  • ❝ _You shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back._ ❞

    LoveTrollLoveTrollMaand geleden
  • Woww good job 👏🏻

    noora angelnoora angelMaand geleden

    Antonio oceanAntonio oceanMaand geleden
    • @kuruu I agree, this would be good advice for children

      marie gmarie gMaand geleden
    • Ikr.. The sad part is that they think this video is only for women.. Like you're not that special??

      kuruukuruuMaand geleden
  • This is some very good advice. 👍🏻👍🏻💯

    Kate LambKate LambMaand geleden
  • I'm Sorry but if someone I don't know starts asking me questions I'm going to tell them to get bent...🔫🔫😂😂

    rebecca Thumperrebecca ThumperMaand geleden
  • Y'all know that this video is not for women only right? 😂😂

    kuruukuruuMaand geleden
  • But what happens when you test the child lock and it is on? What then?

    Jyllian BrownJyllian BrownMaand geleden
    • @pumacatrun2 exactly, and if you’re picked up in a secluded place then you would live share your location to a trusted friend or family and get them to call emergency services on your behalf to not around suspicion.

      Lauren CameronLauren Cameron19 dagen geleden
    • @A Piece Of Cheese I guess the idea is you'd be getting in the car in a more public place and they would drive you somewhere secluded and by then it's too late? If you made a fuss in the car while still relatively public they'd get caught out.

      pumacatrun2pumacatrun227 dagen geleden
    • @Lauren Cameron I don't think a serial killer is going to give a damn if your coat is stuck in the door lol

      A Piece Of CheeseA Piece Of CheeseMaand geleden
    • @Lauren Cameron ohh smart!!!!

      Jyllian BrownJyllian BrownMaand geleden
    • Say that you’ve caught your new jacket/dress in the door and it won’t open

      Lauren CameronLauren CameronMaand geleden
  • Those hotel tips are clutch

    Samantha DSamantha DMaand geleden

    Zakir EllahiZakir EllahiMaand geleden
  • How to be a women lie every time you open your mouth.

    baseskizl_82baseskizl_82Maand geleden
    • how to be a man: don’t know the difference between woman and women

      noitedesextafeiranoitedesextafeiraMaand geleden
    • @Krystal X This has nothing to do with my ego

      baseskizl_82baseskizl_82Maand geleden
    • She’s only lying when she feels she could find herself into danger .. not that you would know how that is but go on defend Your ego

      Krystal XKrystal XMaand geleden
    • @Kez I’m not threatened at all by this. Once again spreading lies

      baseskizl_82baseskizl_82Maand geleden
    • How to be a man critique everything you feel threatened by

      KezKezMaand geleden
  • I agree with the creepy ppl person one....YIKES!!!!

    DoeRaeMeDoeRaeMeMaand geleden
  • So live in fear of everything, make it a habit of lying to slowly turn yourself into a compulsive liar. Miss every possible good opportunity. Good advice!

    Ed EttorEd EttorMaand geleden
    • @Krystal X Yeah, because telling a lie, but still being in fear doesn’t make you look like prey.

      Ed EttorEd EttorMaand geleden
    • @Ed Ettor the only ptsd they get is from the weirdos following them , so preventing stuff to happen to them prevents ptsd ...

      Krystal XKrystal XMaand geleden
    • @Kez just because things happen to people doesn’t mean it’s a common thing you have to be cautious about at every turn. An informative video, definitely something women should have up their sleeve to get out of a more predatory interaction. Still instilling fear for everything that’s a similar interaction in this video. Giving young girls PTSD isn’t empowering them, it’s crippling them.

      Ed EttorEd EttorMaand geleden
    • @Ed Ettor they definitely did use the words creepy man once in the video go have another listen and u cant say when its is exaggerating u never know what can happen they ahve all happnes to skmeone

      KezKezMaand geleden
    • @Kez They never specifically said “creepy” or “man” even though they are implying that. I understand when you’re getting followed or something to that degree, but some of these interactions are just way to silly to take that much precautions over. Plus how cynical or paranoid do you have to be to not give certain people a little trust?

      Ed EttorEd EttorMaand geleden
  • This is why I don't travel alone. Also kinda sad we have to do this kind of thing to feel safe but 🤷

    Heather GonzalezHeather GonzalezMaand geleden
    • Don't confuse being safe and feeling safe

      Bence PándiBence Pándi26 dagen geleden
    • @kuruu I’d love to check out the source where you learned that “more than 40% of women are creepy in this world.” Sounds like an interesting statistic and I’d love to learn more about their research methods/the data they gathered to come to that conclusion.

      Sam NSam NMaand geleden
    • @kuruu I think you’re the one who should think for a bit. You sound like a bigot

      5454Maand geleden
    • @54 I never said men were being excluded, I was this video isn't for women only. Think before you talk.

      kuruukuruuMaand geleden
    • @kuruu and...? Are you made men are being excluded out of a video? Sorry you’re so hurt

      5454Maand geleden
  • I just wear earpods and pretend to not listen

    Typical HealerTypical HealerMaand geleden
    • Not a bad one unless you're being fallowed

      Hope ElizabethHope ElizabethMaand geleden
  • Its so sad that women need to do those things so we protect ourselves from creepy men.

    The_ r3a1_0neThe_ r3a1_0neMaand geleden
    • @Charlotte Haggerty Any woman can carry a weapon. Even a child can, that means anyone is dangerous. Also, it depends on the size (height; weight, build), of both the man and the woman.

      Tr UzTr Uz19 dagen geleden
    • @Charlotte Haggerty I meant the person who wrote the main comment can't say men are creepy not you

      Israa EdogawaIsraa EdogawaMaand geleden
    • @Charlotte Haggerty Got anything to say to me now? Exactly.

      kuruukuruuMaand geleden
    • @Israa Edogawa where did I say "men are creepy"

      Charlotte HaggertyCharlotte HaggertyMaand geleden
    • @UCXTzg8Vd18CxueY-SolUjmw I wanted to add that to your comment and I apologize

      Israa EdogawaIsraa EdogawaMaand geleden
  • How about we teach men to be better?

    Debbie EbbiebobebbieDebbie EbbiebobebbieMaand geleden
    • Well go on then Debbie. Do it! And then report back how successful it was!

      Bence PándiBence Pándi26 dagen geleden
    • @kuruu agreed

      Amarie HustonAmarie HustonMaand geleden
    • @Amarie Huston I understand. Although she could rephrase that.

      kuruukuruuMaand geleden
    • I think it’s just the persons way of showing off their frustrations towards society and how the roles of men and women are presented today and issues that women have to face daily

      Amarie HustonAmarie HustonMaand geleden
    • @kuruu I don’t disagree with that lol just in that context it means it’s a huge issue today. Obviously not all men are bad

      Amarie HustonAmarie HustonMaand geleden
  • From experience I have learnt to always say I have a boyfriend, men will respect an imaginary man instead of the visibly uncomfortable female in-front of him🙃

    Leah JadeLeah JadeMaand geleden
    • @Lord Chumpington "If you say you're uninterested, they'll call you gay anyway." Damn. I saw a few women do that. I don't know why people don't give more attention to women when they do it.

      Simple Stick FigureSimple Stick FigureMaand geleden
    • @Leah Jade thanks haha I know he would never cheat on me, we have been together nearly 4 years and we have lived together for nearly 2 years now 😊 I hate cheaters.

      PandaSenpaiiiPandaSenpaiiiMaand geleden
    • @PandaSenpaiii I hate it when people make cheating out to be a normal thing🙃 relationships now days are like microwave meals, quick and unsatisfactory. I’m glad you’ve found a keeper🥰

      Leah JadeLeah JadeMaand geleden
    • Used this many times, the only answers i got was to cheat on him with them or break up with him for them. My boyfriend isnt imaginary though lol so if they overstep the boundary I set then my boyfriend deals with them.

      PandaSenpaiiiPandaSenpaiiiMaand geleden
    • Well I used that once but the guy tried to convince me to cheat so... I blocked him

      Nicole DijkstraNicole DijkstraMaand geleden